By Michael Vachmiel
December 21, 2020
Consent is only real consent when it is enthusiastic, informed, and withdrawable.
Consent seams simple. A yes, a wink, a nod and boom, permission to go off to the races with your new cutie. For some of us living vampires, the small glimmer in the eye, the fluttering of eyes, and the seductive yes and we are off to feed. Maybe this is all well and good and both parties are on the same page and this is all it takes.
Life however, rarely works that way. No matter what you do, if you are going to touch or engage with another human being, you need permission! Even then, its now that simple. We all have boundaries. Personal, Emotional, and Spiritual limits on what we find acceptable at different stages of relations. Life is not a “all or nothing” situation!
So let’s explore what consent is!
Consent is giving specific permission to engage in an activity at a specific time for a specific amount of time. It can be as simple as “may I hug you” or “may I kiss you” to “want to have sex” or something more complex as “may i feed of you tonight?”
Hey, a vampire has to eat!
So let’s explore how to have fun, sexy, and respectful relationships with consent.
Let’s start with the big one!
Consent must be Enthusiastic!
Enthusiasm! Enthusiasm is simple. “Would you like to have chocolate?” “Yes, dear gods, I would absolutely love some chocolate right now! I will die without it!” See simple. It is not saying yes with fear, intimidation, or fear of consequences. If your intended partner in debauchery is giving you a yes that sound more like a no, then they are really not consenting! They are going along to avoid feeling your disappointment, anger, or wrath. This makes you a really scummy person. We are not that type of person, right ?!
Consent must be informed!
If you can’t talk about it, you should not do it! If you want something, the only honest action is through honest talk. “I want a kiss” “I want to hug” “I like to be spanked” “I want to spank you” “I want to cut your skin with a single use blade and lick your blood from your flesh” We all have needs and no kink shaming!
We are adults. It is time to get over sex, kink, and fetishes. Be open and honest with your partner about what your wants, needs, and desires. Be prepared to explore, experiment and compromise. It is a give and take.
Be prepared to answer questions your partner may have. You may have to do research on what turns you on and give examples to reassure your partner they will be cared for before, during, and after a new activity! Aftercare, like consent, is sexy and mandatory!
It can be withdrawable at any time! Period!
I don’t care if your mid stroke in the orifice of your choice about to have the most explosive orgasim ever! They say stop, you damn well stop! People can have bad days! People can have triggers at the darndest time! Or just maybe they are slightly out of sync with the pacing of the activities and they need a moment.
Be kind to your partner! Be a decent human being! If a partner says no, stop, or safe words banana, then stop and dont be an ass about it!
I hope you have enjoyed the article so far! When we paick pack up in 2021, we will explore more complex consent with Safe, Sane, and Consensual and Risk Aware Consensual Kink!
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